You and just you is responsible for your life. Nothing will change in your life if you are not working for it. Create your life happy and interesting!
You are responsible for your own thinking, your own actions, and your own beliefs. Even though others may influence you, it is up to you to be affected or not. That doesn’t mean that others cannot teach you what is right and wrong, or ways to change, or reasons to change. You should be open-minded to the stories and teachings of others, and then make up your own mind about what is right for you, and if you will make the move to change or not.